The defining difference: payments and qualifying
Both a reverse mortgage and a HELOC let you borrow against your home's equity, but they sit at opposite ends on the two things that matter most in retirement: payments and qualifying.
A reverse mortgage requires no monthly payments at all — interest simply accrues onto the balance, repaid when you eventually sell or pass on — and it qualifies you mainly on your age and home equity, not your income. That combination is exactly what makes it work for a homeowner who is house-rich but cash-poor. A HELOC is the opposite: it demands that you qualify on income (and pass the stress test) and that you make at least interest-only payments on whatever you draw. In exchange, it's far cheaper and lets you preserve your equity. So the first question isn't 'which is better' — it's 'can you comfortably qualify for and service a HELOC?' If yes, it's usually the cheaper tool; if no, the reverse mortgage may be your only realistic route.
